Are you experiencing work evasion?

Developing a positive work ethic and facing work evasion is an inevitable challenge of the Holistic Equestrian.

In fact, it is such a challenge that we dedicated an entire module of the Holistic Horse Handling Program on developing a positive work ethic once the basic pillars are developed. (Interested to learn more? Click this link).

So, inside the latest First Do No Harm Podcast, I’m sharing more about the importance of working through evasion and developing a positive work ethic in your horse. Catch it today here:

A Holistic Approach to Bringing your Horses back into Work

As the echo of school bells reverberates through academic halls, a different kind of semester begins for equestrians. 

After a blissful 5-week holiday, it's time to guide our four-legged companions back into the rhythm of work. The return to the arena demands a thoughtful approach to conditioning, ensuring our horses' well-being and optimum performance. In this journey back to the saddle, let's delve into the intricacies of reviving the equestrian spirit.

1. Preamble of Health:

It is important to recognise that some behaviours are a communication of underlying pain and illness. Working with our industry professionals such as vets, chiros, farriers and bodyworkers set our horses up for success. Optimising our horses' health is key to elevating our training through training obstacles. Our horses are athletes, even if all you do is trail. They still carry us and sometimes move at speed!! More than I can say I can do! This proactive measure sets the stage for a seamless transition, mitigating the risk of any unforeseen health impediments.

2. Gradual Reintroduction of exercises:

Bringing our horses back into work should be gentle and we can’t assume our horses will be where we left them before their holiday. A general rule of thumb is that the horses maintain their muscle mass for 2 weeks off, and then lose it every week thereafter. 

Bringing our horses back into high concussive work like jumping, road riding, hard surfaces and more than 5 - 10 minutes of cantering or half hour of trotting without adequate conditioning can put our horses at risk of splints and other concussion injuries. If you are listening to your horses you will hear the breaks they need.

It doesn’t take long to reach their pre holiday condition. For our horses having 5 weeks off, 3 weeks of 3 - 4 rides a week has seen them back to where they were before their holiday. Commence with light exercises and shorter sessions, allowing their muscles and joints to reawaken without undue strain. This gradual return ensures a harmonious transition, reducing the likelihood of injuries and ensuring a positive experience for both horse and rider.

3. Check their diet:

Sometimes when our horses’ training plateaus, the thing we have missed is their nutritional intake. As we re-enter work, a check in of their diet could be in order. Adjust their nutritional intake to align with their current workload. Especially as our horses age and/or increase their workload, we need to adjust calorie and protein intake. Ensuring a rich and balanced diet will mean the horses have the nutritional reserves for the increase in the workload and optimising performance.

4. The Fitness regime:

Different horses respond to different exercises differently. 

Hunter is our people pleaser with a more anxious nervous system and needs to do lots of slow, relaxed work to prevent tight muscles. Rabbit, as a heavier horse, needs short bursts of effort with periods of walk in between. He is the muscle builder of the family and building endurance with him takes longer and is not natural for him. 

Phoenix is more of a prime athlete adapting to work quickly and enjoying effort. We are careful to make sure his straightness training is on point because he tends to collapse the hip to the right and as a result, stride short through the left shoulder when left to his own devices. 

While they may be doing the same overall exercises in the same class, the riders focus on and adapt how to use them to ensure they are developed for soundness, longevity and optimised athletic performance. 

5. Cross-Training Choreography

To inject a bit of flair into the routine, consider the art of cross-training. 

Hacking out and trails, combined with hill work, poles, grids and lateral exercises in their flatwork provide dynamic stress to the horses body improving their overall athletic development. We can think of hacking out as cardio developing their endurance and aerobic fitness, poles and grids as their gymnastic and push up efforts (when done with the thoracic sling online) and lateral work as suppling. Bursts off effort, long stretches of effort and stretching offer a well rounded exercise program for your horse.

Not only does this improve their topline development and working frame but it also keeps them mentally engaged and prevents them from going arena sour.

6. Consistency and Patience:

I often see riding 1 - 2 times a week as adequate conditioning for the horse for entry level work such as poles, trails and intro dressage. As the demands on the body increase, so does the regularity of work; up to 4 - 5 days a week when working towards collection, jumping over 80 cm and cantering for more than 10 minutes at a time. It is important we are patient with how the horses adapt to the exercise stress. Going too hard, too fast will result in extended periods of our horses being off work with injuries.

Understanding your horse's body type and not comparing your draught’s athleticism to a thoroughbreds and vice versa is important to developing an appropriate fitness and conditioning program to suit the individual horse.

Committing to a regular training schedule (with adequate breaks), combined with a patient understanding of each horse's unique pace of adaptation, fosters a trusting and cooperative partnership. Consistent positive reinforcement becomes the tapestry that binds horse and rider on this journey.

As the gates to the arena swing open, a thoughtful and nuanced approach to conditioning after a 5-week holiday sets the stage for a profound equestrian experience. This is more than a return to work; it is the resurrection of the Holistic Equestrian spirit, with each stride echoing the partnership and dedication that defines our journey in the saddle. Through the careful orchestration of health, gradual re-entry, nutritional balance, fitness awareness, cross-training, and the threads of consistency and patience, we sculpt not just athletes but companions, ready to dance in harmony with us in the equestrian ballet of life.

Are you and your horse frustrated?

We want our horse to enjoy working with us. We want to be able to motivate them. But we can’t speak about motivation without acknowledging frustration.

Join us in this third episode in our willingness and resistance series we talk about how frustration comes up in training and behaviours.

Does your horse resist and fidget at the mounting block?

Recently, one of our students shared their struggle with their horse's reluctance to be mounted, prompting me to reflect on my own experiences and share the insights I've gained in overcoming similar obstacles.

Mounting resistance isn't just a minor inconvenience; it can significantly impact your riding experience and erode the trust between you and your horse, not to mention put you in hospital and require some critical delving into the soundness of your horse's spine. 

Problems with mounting can be as minor as fidgeting at the mounting block and as major as full bronc episodes half in the saddle mid mount. I've come to understand that building a foundation of trust and effective communication is paramount.

First and foremost, groundwork is essential. 

Before even considering mounting, the focus has to be on establishing a solid relationship with your horse on the ground. I much prefer to have the conversation about whether or not the horse wants me on its back on the ground than in the saddle. 

That is the whole point of good groundwork exercises for horses. What you have on the ground you have worse in the saddle. So if you have a horse that is arguing with you or spooking or getting frustrated with you on the ground you’re going to have that when you’re on their back. 

Spending time engaging in ground exercises for horses not only strengthens your bond but also allows you to address any underlying issues or fears your horse may have. That is why we have a thorough program of all the language building exercises I will do with a horse before riding in our Holistic Horse Handling Program. By establishing yourself as a calm and trustworthy leader, you lay the groundwork for a positive riding experience. That’s the secret of Holistic Equestrians who enjoy riding - helping their horse really love being ridden.

Furthermore, it's crucial to pay attention to your horse's physical well-being. 

Issues at the mounting block can often be attributed to discomfort caused by ill-fitting tack or underlying health issues. Checking with your equine professional team and ensuring proper saddle fit are essential steps in addressing any physical discomfort and ensuring your horse's comfort during the mounting process. This is often an underlying cause of catastrophic bronc episodes associated with mounting. That, and lack of capacity for nervous system regulation and signs and signals of lack of a felt sense of safety being missed.

Reward and reinforce. And again.

Positive reinforcement plays a significant role in overcoming mounting resistance. 

If your horse has had a negative experience of being ridden and the mounting process, we have to do the work to change how they are experiencing the process. Sometimes it is being more balanced and gentle with the mount, sometimes it's about addressing your training program and why your horse may be sour on riding. 

Encouraging and rewarding your horse effect and cooperation can help build their confidence and trust in you as their rider. Whether it's with verbal praise, treats, or a gentle pat, acknowledging and reinforcing desirable behaviour fosters a positive association with mounting.

Finally… patience, patience, patience.

Above all, patience is key. Building trust takes time, and overcoming mounting issues requires a consistent and patient approach. 

Don't rush the process or become discouraged by setbacks. Celebrate even the smallest victories and remain committed to building a strong and trusting partnership with your horse.

Now, are you ready to take on the Holistic Equestrian challenge?

If you are facing mounting resistance with your horse, don't lose hope. 

With a combination of groundwork, attention to your horse's physical comfort, positive reinforcement, and patience, you can overcome this challenge and have your horse love riding again. Remember, building trust with your horse is a journey worth embarking on, and the rewards are immeasurable.

In addition to these foundational approaches, there are several specific techniques and strategies you can employ to address mounting resistance effectively. Join us on the First Do No Harm podcast for the full conversation.

Overfacing your horse… do you know when to stop?

There are times, even with the best intentions, where we might push our horse over the threshold. So how do you know when to stop?

As type A achiever equestrians, we tend to feel something amazing when riding and keep chasing that feeling. I want it again, I want it more, I want it better!! 

However, quite often what we are feeling is our horse's best effort. If we don't stop to reward for effort, but instead keep drilling for perfect behaviours, our horse will go sour; at best and get frustrated and throw dangerous behaviours at worst.

A mantra in our school is to stop on a positive note feeling like you could've done more. So when is that?

In the latest episode of the First Do No Harm Podcast, we will talk about how to bring down a shaping plan so that we are rewarding for effort and setting our horse up for success, not only today but in the rides moving forwards.

To join up or not to join up

Welcome to another adventure in the captivating world of horse training! Today, I'm thrilled to share a poignant story with you about a technique known as "join up." But before we get into that, did you catch that playful play on words? So much fun for pun words! Join up, join us – a little humour to kick things off!

So, let's dive right into it! Join up is a widely utilised tool among trainers promoting the ideology that it creates connection with our equine companions. However, like any tool, it carries inherent risks if not wielded with caution. Picture this scene: I'm engaged in a join-up session with a stallion, aiming to nurture a bond, when suddenly, the situation takes a terrifying turn. The stallion unexpectedly lunges, seizing me by the throat and flinging me to the ground. It was a jarring wake-up call, to say the least!

As I lay there, shaken but thankfully not seriously injured, questions flooded my mind: What went wrong? An exercise that supposedly builds a relationship between horse and rider resulted in aggressive behaviour that could have been serious. Just at that moment where we often see horses “soften” and approach he lunged and attacked instead. It prompted a deep introspection, causing me to scrutinise every aspect of my approach to horse training.

Here's what I learned from the experience: join up means more than just mere mechanical steps; it hinges on comprehending the horse's emotions and honoring its boundaries. Join up as an application of pressure release with no escape for the horse is only a sequence of events that can be recreated with a remote control car (seriously check out the literature here https://www.sydney.edu.au/news-opinion/news/2012/07/13/researchers-urge-rethink-of-monty-roberts-horse-training-method.html) and does not build trust, rapport and connection as touted. Instead, building trust with horses necessitates patience, empathy, and a willingness to earn their confidence over time.

So, what's the overarching lesson here? 

Well, for starters, join up isn't a panacea. It's a tool, yes, but its efficacy rests squarely on the handler's understanding and sensitivity and other connection, trust and relationship building exercises the handler is using. We must approach it with humility, always prioritising the horse's welfare above all else. Creating an environment that develops psychological safety, felt sense of safety and emotional agility first and foremost.

It took me quite a few years delving into the realms of connection training to find my answer to the aggression in a horse. Horse aggression towards humans is the same as spookiness. The horse feels unsafe and the nervous system is being activated by the perception of threat to protect itself. It's just that the horses that act out aggressively are confident enough that they can take out the threat or are cornered and so that is their best option. Even my most flighty horse king would act out rearing and striking when cornered and felt unsafe. 

That is why the first module of our Holistic Horse Handling Program is developing an awareness of tension holding and tension releasing so as to create a felt sense of safety first and then the psychological safety to communicate this tension is building second. It gives the horses and us the tools to navigate the emotional agility required in training and develops trust and confidence and our eye for when we need to take the pressure off and hit the brakes. 

Is your horse happy?

At the heart of our Holistic Equestrian journey lies the language of our horses' bodies. 

Their subtle movements and expressions convey volumes about their state of mind and emotional well-being. 

When our horses are content and engaged, their bodies reflect this through relaxed postures, soft eyes, and relaxed ears which can also be pricked forward in attentive curiosity. Conversely, signs of tension such as pinned ears, swishing tails, or a rigid stance may signal discomfort, fear, or lack of consent.

Paying close attention to our horses' behavior during grooming and tacking up provides valuable insights into their comfort levels and willingness to engage. A horse that stands quietly and patiently while being groomed and saddled can demonstrate a level of trust and cooperation. On the other hand, moving away from, fidgeting, or signs of agitation may indicate underlying discomfort or unease that requires further investigation and addressing.This is why our Holistic Horse Handling Program incorporates lessons on consent and congruence. How do you tease apart the agitation seen due to flies biting or discomfort around saddle fit and agitation seen due to feeling unsafe about being ridden and just a general lack of interest in work?

During training sessions, creating a positive and supportive environment is paramount. Clear communication, consistent cues, and fair expectations lay the groundwork for trust and confidence between horse and rider. By rewarding desired behaviors with praise, treats, or a release of pressure, we reinforce our horses' offer reciprocity and acknowledgement of our horses' efforts. This can have a flow on effect of increased congruence and willingness to participate and encourage continued cooperation.

Variety is the spice of life, even in our equine partners' training routines. Incorporating diverse exercises such as groundwork, trail rides, or playful games not only keeps sessions interesting but also stimulates mental engagement and prevents boredom or burnout. By offering our horses new challenges and experiences, we foster their curiosity and enthusiasm for learning.

Ensuring our horses' physical well-being is essential for their overall happiness and willingness to work. A balanced diet, regular exercise, and routine veterinary care are foundational pillars of their health and comfort. Addressing any physical issues promptly and providing adequate rest and recovery time are crucial for maintaining their well-being and longevity as athletes and companions.

Building a strong bond and connection with our horses goes beyond mere training exercises. It is forged through shared experiences, mutual respect, and genuine affection. Spending quality time together outside of formal training sessions, whether it's grooming, hand grazing, or simply enjoying each other's company, strengthens the bond between horse and rider. This bond forms the bedrock of trust and understanding upon which a successful partnership is built.

Understanding our horses' happiness and willingness to work requires a holistic approach that encompasses both physical and emotional well-being. By attentively observing their body language, responding to their cues, and fostering a positive and supportive environment, we can cultivate a deep and meaningful partnership with our equine companions. Join me as we continue to explore the intricacies of equine communication and embark on a journey of discovery, growth, and mutual enrichment. Listen to the full podcast for how we use these training principles to create happy, willing, engaged horses that enjoy learning, movement feels good and they ask to be ridden.

Does your horse respect you?

In today's fast-paced and competitive industry landscape, the word of "respect" often gets a bad wrap. It's a word that gets thrown around a lot, but what does it truly mean in the context of training horses? Join us on a journey as we unravel the layers of this complex concept and shed light on how we use it in training.

First and foremost, let's address the elephant in the room: the misconception that respect is synonymous with dominance and power over others. 

This misguided belief has seeped into our equestrian culture, leading many to equate respect with authority and control. But here's the thing – there is a difference between respect that has been coerced or demanded for fear of consequences and respect earnt through genuine actions and intentions.

So, where does respect truly stem from? At its core, respect is rooted in empathy and understanding. 

One of the most frequent questions we get is how do I get my horse to “xyz”? How can I control my horse? How can I make my horse be calm? And in these simple questions, the art of working with horses is lost. 

We cannot make our horse do anything and the more we try the more they resist. The question to ask is “how do I support my horse to overcome this challenge?” The empathy we have for our horses' experience are the tools we have to support our horses to achieve the task at hand. Acknowledging that this can feel hard or feel stressful without feeling bad or sorry for the experience so that we can support them with kindness and compassion through the challenge develops their resilience and their trust and confidence in us.

““Respect should never be based on fear – it should be a product of mutual trust and confidence.”
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When respect is confused with “because I say so”, fear of consequences and retribution at best we have horses that are shut down and big dangerous behaviours come out of seemingly nowhere because we’ve blown through their threshold and not developed their psychological safety to say “I’m not ok”. At worst we develop horses that are dangerously fearful or aggressive. It may be thought that asserting your authority is what is required to be a leader worth following. However, the Compassionate Leader that knows how to develop psychological safety, trust and confidence in their ability to lead sees the horses seeking direction when unsure. That is why compassionate leadership is the second module within our Holistic Horse Handling Program. How you lead intimately affects how your horse follows. Respect should never be based on fear – it should be a product of mutual trust and confidence.

It took me a lot of personality development supportive people in my life to understand what working as a team looks like. The demand for personal achievement laid upon the horse does not path the way for a team effort. How we show up for our horse during times they feel unsafe, uncomfortable or unsure can make or break a relationship. A good school horse knows how to look after a beginner to intermediate rider but when it comes time to stretch their or our comfort zone their anxiety can trip them over into flight or they may flat out refuse. Actively listening to their concerns, valuing their input, and empowering them to voice their opinions without fear of retribution is the psychological safety a compassionate leader can offer to their horse.

That means we have to be ok with them saying no so that that language can evolve to no because:

• I’m in pain

• I’m unsure

• I’m uncomfortable

• I don’t understand

• I can’t do this today

• I don’t have confidence in what you are saying

This allows us to adapt the ask to develop the felt sense of safety and psychological safety for the horse without fear of creating dangerous or naughty horses. If anything it makes them safer. 

While some horse handlers, trainers and coaches may be saying to “push your horse through it”, “make them do it”, “allowing resistance creates naught, dangerous horses” what they are really saying is lead so that your horse wants to follow. They just don’t know the language. Compassionate leadership and psychological safety are their own journey and art form. 

I will add one caveat. What you release for you reinforce. So for example if you ask your horse to walk on off halter pressure and they rear, you get a fright and release the halter pressure you likely have just taught your horse to rear off halter pressure. We delve into the subtleties and intricacies of this exchange in our Holistic Horse Handling Program.

Ultimately, respect is not just a buzzword – it's a fundamental principle that should guide our interactions and relationships with our horses. However it is our own perception of respect that has been conditioned through our lives experiences that reflects how we show up for our horse as a compassionate leader that can develop psychological safety in training. 

Interested to know more about compassionate leadership and psychological safety in horse training? Check out our free masterclass: https://www.equestrianmovement.com/sayyes

Alternatively, if you are ready to start your journey as a Compassionate Leader, the Holistic Horse Handling Program is open for enrolments now!

Is your horse reacting to you?

In the realm of human-horse relationships, equestrians often find themselves as the guiding presence, navigating the intricate dynamics that unfold between rider and steed. 

This unique role, however, comes with its challenges, particularly when dealing with the unspoken language that exists in the world of horse handling. In this exploration, we delve into the nuanced practices of Holistic Horse Handling Methodology, emphasising the pivotal roles of body awareness and relaxation in shaping positive training experiences.

Our nervous system states act as subtle conductors in a dance that transcends visible cues. Stress and responsibilities can cast shadows on the connection we seek with our equine companions. Recognizing and managing these states becomes crucial in shaping a training session that fosters harmony rather than discord.

A fundamental element in this delicate dance is the cultivation of body awareness for tension holding. This skill involves tuning into the physical manifestations of stress and tension within our own bodies. Understanding how our physical tensions may be influencing our equine partners unlocks the ability to communicate safety and relaxation, laying the foundation for a positive training experience. Unconsciously, we may be triggering resistance, stubbornness, flightiness or even fight in our horses. 

Starting on a journey of self-discovery is no easy feat, especially when faced with the demands of daily life. Responsibilities and stressors can carve out physical pockets of tension that unknowingly find their way to our horses. The path to Holistic Horsemanship demands a willingness to recognize and release these tensions, fostering an environment where both horse and rider can thrive.

With the Holistic Horse Handling Methodology, relaxation assumes a pivotal role. It goes beyond the physical act of loosening muscles, encompassing the creation of an atmosphere where mental and emotional tensions can dissipate. Horses, as intuitive beings, become mirrors reflecting the internal state of their handlers. Thus, cultivating a calm and centred presence becomes not just a practice but an essential component of effective training. This in and of itself can be challenging enough but then taking it into the arena for active efforting, physical development and training brings its own layer of difficulty.

““Horses, as intuitive beings, become mirrors reflecting the internal state of their handlers.”

The journey of self-awareness and tension release is not without its challenges. If the process unearths unresolved issues or overwhelming emotions, seeking the guidance of a psychologist is a wise step. These professionals provide invaluable tools and strategies to navigate the complexities of the human psyche, ensuring that the path towards holistic horse handling remains a positive and enriching one.

The profound connections forged between human and horse are a testament to the artistry of equine interaction. The Holistic Horse Handling Methodology invites us to understand the subtlety of our own nervous system states and the language of tension that we bring into the arena. 

By embracing body awareness and relaxation, we not only enhance our training experiences but also deepen the bond between horse and handler, elevating the art of equine connection to new heights.

Keen to learn more about the Holistic Handling Methodology? Join the free Masterclass below:

How to get your horse to “join up” without chasing your horse into submission

As horse riders on the journey we are all seeking the moment of utter magic and joy, where our horse connects with us on a deeper level emotionally.

The moment where they stop arguing with us, pushing us around, trying to run away from us.

That moment of union where it’s like you are your horse move and think as one. 

Join up is often recommended to establish this connection. It is touted as the way to handle your horse without violence and to develop a bond. However, after years of breaking, training and playing around with different groundwork principles, I believe there is a better way.

What is join up

Join up is where you free lunge your horse in a round yard.

You keep the horse moving forward until you see loud, over exaggerated and multiple relaxation cues (Read more about relaxation cues here).

The premise being that when you horse shows these signs of submission they are ready to approach you and bond with you. When you are free lunging your horse you are wanting them to change direction by turning into you not away from you. This also encourages the join up process.

Why this works

It gets the zoomies out.

We honestly expect a lot more of our horses than we do of other animals. Because they are so big and we want to sit on them we expect a naturally flighty animal to be unflappable (get it cause they’re often scared of flappy plastic bags). We not only expect them to be cool, calm and collected in all environments but we also want them to be steady and balanced when they work no matter what kind of performance pressure we put on them.

Behaviours that are perfectly acceptable from other animals (i.e. the zoomies) are considered naughty when done by horses. Sometimes they just need a good run to get the spunk out of their system and then they can concentrate and work again. Join up can let our horses have a good run and a buck and warm their back up before settling into focus and work. 

Horses learn from the release of pressure. Whatever a horse is consistently doing when you take the pressure off them they will learn to do. So if you take the pressure of the lunge whip off when your horse shows relaxation cues, or calmly approaches you, they will learn to give multiple, loud relaxation cues and approach you calmly… eventually so they don’t have to lunge anymore.

So used correctly this can be a handy skill to have and know how to use but it doesn’t establish a bond with your horse. It can be a useful way to allow your horse to get its pent up energy out of its system so it can calmly approach you and better control its emotions. 

And a horse that can’t control its emotions, can’t control its behaviour. 

Why we don’t love it

It doesn’t teach horses how to process their emotions.

Just running the energy out of them so that they can focus doesn’t teach them how to shift their emotional state.

So if they are cooperating because they are scared, confused, frustrated anxious etc, it only teaches them how to process emotion (fight or flighty hormones) by running - which is not necessarily what we need to teach a flight animal. More so we are taking advantage of the horses natural way of processing fight or flight hormones by running. The fitter we make our horses the longer it takes to get those relaxation cues and we end up making our horses fitter than us. 

It works off the idea of submission.

While at equestrian movement we start with leadership (i.e. me boss you follower), we like to try and move quickly into a partnership.

We also establish leadership with clear, consistent boundaries and following through on our asks. Not chasing our horses until they quit (FYI this is also why join up works). You are clear and consistent on what you want the horse to do and what will happen to them when they do it. There are clear consequences to their behaviour and it is followed through on.

So what is thought of as a bond establishing it really is just the horse learning what to do with pressure and how to find the release (don’t believe me? Check out this study where they were able to get the same join up results with a remote control car. https://thehorse.com/118284/remote-controlled-cars-used-to-study-round-pen-training/)

You don’t have to chase your horse to establish a connection with your horse and get them to “join up” or “hook on”

Showing up as a good leader, establishing clear, consistent expectations, following through on your asks, being clear in your expectations and consequences and over time you will develop trust, respect and a relationship. Want to speed the process along? We cover how to establish the connection without join up in our Easy Peasy Liberty Module of Training trainability.

Why you should play with your horse (and 14 games to play)

All work and no play makes Doris a dull girl – and it’s just as true for your horse as it is for you!

Building a little bit of play into your routine has significant benefits, including:

• Improving the bond between you and your horse

• Improving your horses work ethic (and your own work ethic as well)

• Increasing training techniques for you and your horse

• Improving the physical, mental and emotional well-being of you both

Playing with your horse doesn’t have to be complex or difficult, nor does it have to eat into your training time. But given the benefits of playtime, is it not worth 10-15 minutes?

How to play with your horse

Here are just a few suggestions of games you can play with your horse.

On the ground

1. Come – teach your horse to respond to the command “come” by taking a step towards you (immediately reward the effort to step towards you). You may initially need to start this on a lead rope then progress without it. Once your horse is taking a few steps voluntarily, extend the distance and eventually you can begin to cue with other signals, such as raising both arms. Remember, your horse is motivated by a release in pressure, so always reward a small give towards you. (It could also help you with the uncatchable horse, but perhaps start in a smaller enclosed area if they are).

2. Fetch – this is a great fun game where you drop an item and ask your horse to pick it up for you. A great game that will help avoid dismounting if you drop your crop!

3. Follow the leader/Tag – These games are an extension of the come command.

4. Hug – a hug from a loved one is an amazing feeling, so why not teach your horse to hug you! Have you horse stretch his neck around your body.

5. Soccer – many horses love to play with inanimate objects! You can teach your horse to play with a ball with you if they are inclined to play with objects. Start with proper horse balls – these have handles and are larger but still light so as your horse nuzzles the ball it will move. The handles also drive the inquisitive mind to grab them and also make the ball move in unpredictable directions.

In the saddle

1. Hack it out! Go for a trail ride, explore the paddock – whatever you do, just get out of that arena!

2. Ride a different discipline – if you are training dressage, why not set up a small jump course, or some barrels, and have a burl. Get some friends together and compete in your own at home pony club session! (Make it even more fun by handing out some cheeky mock awards, such as shiniest bum or widest turn).

3. Go to a show – just for fun – What if you just went to a show with no intentions of winning? The stimulation of the show along with the fact that you will be much more relaxed will not only be good practice for you both, but break up the monotony of work. Don’t think you are ready to show? Who cares? Be that annoyingly blissful person that is looking after your horse, gaining experience and doesn’t care about points or opinions.

4. Simon says – this is another great group game to play. Someone will need to play Simon but you can swap it around so everyone has a turn. Simon says do a twenty meter circle, Simon says halt, Trot on – oops Simon didn’t say that- you lose!

5. Maze run - using poles, cones and barrels, create a maze and obstacle course to navigate through. Just remember to ensure you understand how well your horse turns, as you don’t want to make it too difficult… it is, after all, a game!

6. Horseback archery - if you haven’t had a go at this yet, it is truly time to try! We run an archery session in our school’s mastery classes and everyone enjoys it. It is also great for teaching emotional agility within yourself and your horse!

Quick fun

1. Find that itch and scratch it – horses are herd animals so contact is something they enjoy. Even better, it’s something they need for those hard-to-reach itchy spots. Give your horse a moment of pleasure by giving one of those favourite hard-to-reach areas a good long scratch!

2. Carrot stretches – what horse doesn’t like carrots (and if yours doesn’t, try their other favourite treat). Encourage them to reach forward, between their front legs, and to the sides to get the carrots – preferably while staying still. It’s also great for stretching out their neck and back muscles before a riding session.

3. Squeaky toys – as with the soccer ball, some curious horses may enjoy the stimulation provided by flicking around and jumping on a squeaky toy. Laughter will be guaranteed as they discover the different noises they make. Just make sure the toy is much larger than a mouthful!

What games do you play with your horse? Comment below!

Unravelling the not-so-fun questions of "What's wrong with my horse?”

What is wrong with my horse?

Who should I speak to?

Where do I start?

These are the questions that led to the release of one of our latest podcasts: What is wrong with my horse. In it, I explore the intricate world of equine care, collaborative efforts with professionals to address ongoing health and behavioural challenges. This conversation will transcend discussions on methods; it offers insight into our core philosophy, grounded in a steadfast commitment to prioritise the happiness and well-being of our equine companions.

Our journey begins with a careful examination of our collaborative efforts with professionals who play crucial roles in our equine care community. These experts, including veterinarians, equine therapists, and behavior specialists, aren't just advisors; they're essential partners in our shared mission to ensure the holistic well-being of our equine friends. They can share experiences and real-life examples, and shed light on the depth and significance of a multidisciplinary approach, allowing us to draw on a wealth of knowledge to craft tailored care plans for the unique needs of each horse.

Problem-solving ongoing behavioural or health issues demands a profound understanding of the distinct personality of each horse. As I share anecdotes and scenarios, I invite you into the captivating world of equine psychology, where observation and active listening take centre stage. It's a journey into understanding the silent language of our horses, interpreting the nuanced whispers of their behaviour, and responding with patience and empathy.

Our first-do-no-harm philosophy isn't an abstract notion; it's meticulously integrated into every facet of equine care and daily life with our horses. We weave a tapestry of preventive measures, including tailored nutrition plans, thoughtful living conditions, and a proactive approach to health management. I use this philosophy to guide our commitment to creating an environment that nurtures both the physical and psychological well-being of our horses.

This commitment isn't born out of a rigid adherence to a set of rules; rather, it's a dynamic response to the evolving needs of our horses. The episode becomes a journey through the intricacies of equine care, a journey that emphasises the importance of flexibility and adaptability. It's an acknowledgment that each horse is an individual with unique needs, and our approach must be responsive to their ever-changing requirements.

Far beyond a simple exchange of information, this episode serves as an educational odyssey. We share insights and practical tips for fellow horse enthusiasts, advocating for a mindful and holistic approach to equine care. It underscores the perpetual importance of continuous learning, staying attuned to advancements in equine health and behaviour science, and embracing an ever-evolving journey towards refined practices.

This episode is a living embodiment of our unwavering dedication as Holistic Equestrians to the equine souls under our care. It's an intimate and expansive conversation that encapsulates our commitment to evolve, improve, and provide the best possible life for our horses. As you immerse yourself in this profound exploration, we hope you join us in a shared journey of understanding, compassion, and the deep respect we hold for these magnificent creatures. Together, let's traverse the intricate landscape of equine care, where the language spoken is that of empathy, the canvas painted is one of well-being, and the guiding principle is the timeless commitment to prioritise the health, happiness, and harmony of our equine companions.

Sensitising your horse to your aids

The dance between rider and horse is a subtle choreography of communication and understanding. 

Central to this delicate dance is the art of sensitising your horse to your aids, a foundational practice unlocking an effortless ride where each movement flows with natural grace. This session explores invaluable tips and tricks to enhance your horse's responsiveness, cultivating a partnership marked by harmonious unity.

Achieving harmony in the saddle transcends dominance; it's about establishing a shared language with your equine companion. Sensitising your horse to your aids involves cultivating acute awareness and responsiveness to subtle cues, fostering a seamless flow of communication that defines every ride. Before delving into practical insights, grasping the language of aids is crucial. 

From the pressure of your legs to the gentle guidance of your reins, each aid conveys a distinct message to your horse, forging a refined dialogue that surpasses verbal communication. The unconscious movements and shifts of balance in the saddle serve to describe your intent to your horse. Drawing your attention to and developing your coordination and body awareness are key to progress in your training. 

““Before delving into practical insights, grasping the language of aids is crucial””

In nurturing responsiveness, consistency stands as a pillar of effective aids. Clear and consistent cues allow your horse to establish a reliable association between specific aids and corresponding actions, forming the bedrock for improved responsiveness. The journey of sensitising your horse is gradual; introducing new aids with patience allows your horse the time to comprehend and respond, preventing confusion and resistance. Positive reinforcement emerges as a potent tool in sensitisation, rewarding desired responses with praise or treats, establishing a positive association and motivating your horse to willingly engage.

Diversifying your training arsenal by injecting variety into routines keeps your horse engaged and responsive. This not only prevents monotony but challenges your horse to remain attuned to your aids in diverse scenarios, enriching overall responsiveness. Achieving clarity in aids hinges on clear communication from the rider, cultivating a refined seat, steady hands, and precise leg cues. The more adeptly you convey intentions, the easier it becomes for your horse to understand and respond promptly.

Embracing patience and empathy, sensitising your horse is an odyssey that acknowledges each equine partner's uniqueness. The timeline for achieving optimal responsiveness may vary, requiring a composed demeanour and celebration of small victories along the way. Sensitising your horse is an art form that elevates the riding experience into a symphony of harmonious interactions. As your horse becomes finely attuned to your cues, the dance between rider and horse transforms into an eloquent expression of harmony, where each transition and movement becomes a shared language, testament to the profound connection forged through meticulous practice.

Sensitising your horse to aids is not about an escalation of pressure and submission but of a refinement and coordination of your body movements. Your horse learns to tune out uncoordinated movements that are based on your need to rebalance, and you need a way to call their attention to and help the horse differentiate between a cue and you catching your balance. Refining your coordinated efforts is an essential pillar for finding flow in the saddle. It's an investment in the evolution of a partnership beyond instruction, blossoming into a dialogue characterised by understanding and collaboration. 

By incorporating tried-and-true tips and techniques with patience and unwavering consistency, you set the stage for a journey where each ride becomes a mesmerising symphony of harmony between you and your horse.

What does personal development have to do with horse training

As Holistic Equestrians, our journey alongside horses weaves a complex tapestry that extends far beyond the mere act of riding. Themes of personal development echo through our podcast discussions, underscoring the deep connection between the evolution of the self and the equestrian lifestyle. 

In this blog, we delve into the intricate relationship between personal growth and being an equestrian, shedding light on the transformative power inherent in this intersection. Should these reflections strike a chord within you, we wholeheartedly encourage seeking the support of a professional to navigate the emotions and challenges that may arise.

The Holistic Equestrian journey serves as a reflective mirror for our personal evolution, encapsulating the challenges, victories, and introspective moments that collectively shape our narrative. Each stride on horseback becomes a metaphor for personal growth, while our equine companions emerge as profound teachers, imparting lessons in patience, resilience, communication, and empathy that seamlessly integrate into our broader journey of personal development. The horse, as a reflective mirror, invites us to confront our limitations and embrace the latent potential within.

“ “The horse, as a reflective mirror, invites us to confront our limitations and embrace the latent potential within.””

On horseback, the synergy between personal development and equestrianism unfolds. Overcoming fears, cultivating trust, and navigating challenges in the saddle mirror the broader journey of personal transformation. It's a dynamic interplay where the horse assumes roles of both partner and guide, directing us towards a deeper understanding of our capabilities. Equine therapy emerges as a transformative force, extending its therapeutic effects not only to those facing specific challenges but to every equestrian seeking personal growth. The inherently non-judgmental nature of the horse creates an environment fostering mindfulness, self-awareness, and emotional resilience, with the equine companion becoming a catalyst for self-discovery and healing.

The Holistic Equestrian path is not a static destination, but instead an unceasing odyssey of self-discovery and growth. Trials in the arena, jubilant triumphs, and moments of vulnerability all contribute to the ongoing narrative of personal development. It's a perpetual journey where the wisdom gleaned from our equine partners transcends the barn, influencing our daily lives. As we navigate these intertwining paths, it's essential to acknowledge the potential emotional impact. If this exploration stirs emotions or surfaces challenges, recognizing the importance of seeking professional support is a pivotal step. Holistic Equestrianism is undoubtedly a transformative journey, and having a trusted mental health professional as a guide can offer valuable insights and coping mechanisms.

In unravelling the intrinsic connection between personal development and Holistic Equestrianism, we uncover a profound synergy that transcends the mechanics of riding. The horse, in this intricate dance, becomes more than a companion in the arena—it evolves into a reflective mirror unveiling our growth, resilience, and deepening self-awareness. As equestrians, we traverse an unending journey where each stride is an opportunity for personal development, and every challenge propels us toward a richer understanding of ourselves. It's a journey worth embracing, and if it resonates on a personal level, reaching out for professional support is a courageous step toward continued growth and well-being.

Love what you are reading? Listen to the First Do No Harm podcast episode where we cast further light onto personal development with horses.

Connecting with horses with Melissa from Melissa Jean PT Part 1

As the podcast episode unfolded, it became evident that equine-assisted therapy is not merely a physical exercise but a profound emotional and psychological experience. The horse becomes an empathetic partner, responding to the emotions and needs of the individual. This revelation expands our appreciation for the complexity of the therapeutic relationship, emphasising that the bond between humans and horses in therapy is a reciprocal exchange, a silent conversation that transcends words. 

The narrative takes an intriguing turn as we immerse ourselves in the role of horses in understanding and regulating the vagus nerve, gaining unique insights into Melissa's personal journey with equine therapy. Horses, with their intuitive nature, emerge as sentient mirrors reflecting our emotions. Through equine therapy, they guide us on a profound journey of self-awareness and emotional regulation. Melissa's experience shines a light on the transformative power of equine therapy, illustrating how it serves as a catalyst for rewiring the nervous system, fostering resilience, and nurturing emotional well-being.

A pivotal takeaway from this episode lies in the intricate connection between neural pathways, muscle conditioning, and the significance of patiently building a robust foundation in horse riding. Melissa artfully draws parallels between the process of learning to ride a horse and the rewiring of our neural pathways. It becomes a testament to the virtues of patience, persistence, and the gradual construction of a solid base. This not only leads to mastery in horse riding but also fosters the kind of personal and professional growth that unfolds organically.

In the heart of this profound episode, we find ourselves on a transformative journey of rewiring the nervous system, seeking solace in equine therapy, and understanding the profound impact horses can have on our well-being. Melissa's narrative serves as a living testament to the idea that personal and professional growth demands the courageous confrontation of limiting beliefs, the proactive seeking of support when necessary, and the embrace of discomfort intrinsic to change. It's a narrative that echoes resilience, self-discovery, and, ultimately, the profound transformation of the mind and spirit.

Join us on your favourite podcast streaming device (or use the buttons below) for our deep dive into equine-assisted therapy. Melissa provides a comprehensive understanding of the profound connection between humans and horses. Her wealth of experience and insights unravelled the layers of untapped potential for healing and connection within the intricate dance of therapy. As we ventured into this uncharted territory, we discovered the magic that unfolds when humans and horses come together for the purpose of healing—a reminder of the profound impact our emotional states can have on these magnificent creatures.

Have you ever found yourself captivated by the subtle dance between humans and horses in therapeutic settings? 

The nuanced way in which our emotions delicately influence a horse's movements, creating a reciprocal impact on both participants? 

Have you ever found yourself grappling with the weight of limiting beliefs, feeling adrift from reality, or yearning for a profound shift in the trajectory of your life?

We were lucky enough to recently invite Melissa Jean, a seasoned PT with an impressive 19 years of experience, onto the First Do No Harm Podcast, to explore the world of hippotherapy and equine-assisted activities.

Derived from the Greek word "hippos," meaning horse, hippotherapy transcends traditional therapeutic approaches by incorporating horseback riding as a powerful tool. Melissa's insights not only shed light on the physical benefits—enhanced posture, improved muscle tone—but also emphasised the profound emotional and mental transformations that can occur through this unconventional method. The rhythmic and repetitive movements of the horse, as Melissa expertly explained, engage the rider's core muscles, contributing to improved balance and coordination.

Central to our deep dive is the critical role of emotional coherence between humans and horses in achieving successful therapeutic outcomes. Horses, attuned to the subtlest of cues, become silent yet perceptive partners in the journey of healing. Melissa highlights the need for individuals engaged in equine-assisted therapy to be acutely aware of their emotional states, recognizing that these emotions not only shape the rider's experience but also directly influence the horse's behaviour and, consequently, the effectiveness of the therapy. Melissa also shares a poignant chapter from her early 20s; the pivotal juncture when the harsh reality struck her – the beliefs ingrained deep within her did not align with the unfolding reality. This realisation set the stage for a challenging period of self-discovery, marked by the absence of guidance and the struggle of rewiring the nervous system without the scaffolding of a supportive framework.

Melissa meticulously unveils the transformative power of reframing limiting beliefs and rewiring the nervous system, presenting them as dynamic tools for personal and professional growth. She underscores the crucial need to address early experiences, viewing them as the foundational stones upon which a fulfilling and authentic existence can be built.

The depth of our exploration extends to the strategies employed for maintaining equine welfare while providing therapeutic services. Melissa's emphasis on creating a safe and comfortable environment for the horses becomes paramount. It's not merely about the mechanics of therapeutic riding; it's about understanding each horse's unique personality, preferences, and ensuring their well-being to actively participate in the therapeutic process. It's a testament to the symbiotic relationship that exists between humans and horses in this therapeutic realm.

Our journey took an intriguing turn as we delved into the surprising capabilities of Arabian horses in therapeutic settings. Melissa shared her experiences, revealing the innate sensitivity and adaptability of these majestic creatures. Establishing a strong rapport with Arabian horses emerged as a crucial factor in unlocking their full therapeutic potential. The depth of connection between human and horse goes beyond the clinical; it's about building trust and understanding.

The space between

In the vast world of horse companionship, there's a delicate balance between our gut reactions and thoughtful responses to our four-legged friends. 

It goes beyond nailing physical skills like balance and coordination; it's about navigating the twists and turns of our connection with these amazing animals. 

So, are we just reacting on impulse, or are we taking a moment to respond to our horse's signals with genuine care?

Recent insights into equine brains and nerves have shown us that there's more to this journey than just getting the physical moves right. It's about timing – knowing when our horse is ready to listen and when they need a breather. This newfound awareness becomes our compass, guiding our communication with horses beyond the usual training routine and into a deeper, more meaningful connection.

Timing in horsemanship isn't about acing the moves. It's an art, a feeling for our horse's reactions. Think of the horse's nervous system like a gatekeeper, deciding whether to stay open or closed to our invitation to join us in training based on how they experience us. Holistic horsemanship means understanding and connecting with these incredible animals, going beyond the black and white application of operant conditioning and delving into the depths of intuitive equine communication.

In the dynamics of our relationship, the physical stuff is just one piece of the puzzle. Even if we get the application of the aids perfect, our horse might not understand the ask, be able to answer the ask the way we want them to or feel confident in what we are asking of them. On the flip side, we might apply the aid with perfect coordination, timing and balance, and yet our horse might sweetly respond. This dynamic is a celebration of the emotional bond we share, going beyond what's visible in our regular training sessions.

Understanding that our horses, like us, need time to process things mentally is a big part of being a good horse companion. After asking something of them, they need a moment to think it through. That is why preparing our horses for an aid is a prerequisite to being able to ride with accuracy. This dance of patience and understanding turns our journey into more than just commands and obedience. It becomes a partnership built on trust, where every step is a celebration of our connection.

So, as we work on our skills in the arena, let's not forget the deep connection we have with our horses. It's about the back-and-forth, the right timing, and giving them the mental space they need to process the ask and respond. These simple yet significant elements shape a journey that goes beyond our usual drilled training routines. It's a journey that recognizes our horses as more than just machinery; they're companions on a shared adventure.

Are you ready to embrace the adventure that is the Holistic Horse Handling Methodology? Check out our free masterclass: Say yes to a happy willing horse.

Is it behaviour or personality?

When talking about anthropomorphising a horse, we know that are horses don't have the functionality of the brain the plan out our demise and set us up for how they can best torture us for the day. However, we need to have empathy for how they are experiencing us and how their experience of us can attribute to the behaviours we are seeing. 

We know that when we call a horse stubborn we are anthropomorphising. How I tease apart anthropomorphising and empathy is when I see a particular behaviour I will research underlying neurotransmitters and hormones that would be associated. In the example of stubbornness we can't find associated biochemical activity associated with it. 

So then I go into children’s behaviour and what that has to say on the subject. With regard to stubbornness, children who are stubborn often grow into strong leaders. So it's more of a personality attribute than an internal chemical reaction to their environment. Stubborness might actually be a good thing!

But how can we support this without tearing our hair out? 

Well, a leader doesn't like to be told what to do; they like to lead. However, we need to be able to give the 500kg + furbaby we are trying to ride some form of direction. What do they need to follow our direction? Trust and confidence in the directions we give them. That is why building trust and confidence is in our second module of Holistic Horse Handling Methodology, "compassionate leadership".

Because a felt sense of safety isn't just safe from us as the threat, but also feeling safe in taking direction from us. 

It’s time to take some of that intuition, some of that anthromorphising, and understand better how we can work in a positive way with our horses.

Who cares what the judges think?

Who cares about what equestrian sport judges think?

I used to… a lot. But not anymore.

The only opinion I care about is my horses.... And my body workers.

I have created somewhat of an obsession for myself. Developing the most functionally sound and eagerly congruent horse that even beginners can ride. I've been obsessed with this for a good 18 years now. It started out, I thought if horses could just be kind and sound they would get a loving home and they wouldn't have to go to the doggers (slaughterhouse, for those of you less familiar with Aussie slang). 

And then I realised there's worse places than the doggers. But that's another story. I stayed obsessed with creating the perfectly sound horse. Anybody that shares that obsession knows how impossible that is. The more I watch horses the harder it is for me to see a sound horse. They all have their tell tale signs of discomfort. 

For a while I went really backwards in my training. Trying to chase these answers we had chiros, massages, equisage, farriers, saddle fitters. We got so desperate with one horse we were getting energy workers and demons exorcised. It got to a point where I quit body workers altogether and decided i would just use strength training and conditioning. 

After a while there would be times that I would attend a lesson and the horse would be moving significantly more freely and happily than the week before. And every time I got the same answer. They had just got their chiropractor out - Tork Cowan. Well of course I had to try him. And the rest is history. He has managed my horses for years now and he has sent me down a whole new rabbit hole obsession of creating a neutral spine, true straightness, to achieve the soundness I'm looking for. 

Horses don't really like to work like that. They have to spend more effort. And achieving that straightness is especially made worse by our hands, riding for submission to the bit instead of acceptance, the horse guarding themselves and their body against the bit being used and pulling them off balance. 

This week Tork came out and ran over our school horses. He went over Rabbit and turned to me and said I can't find anything. My jaw dropped. There's never nothing! He said I know, it's happened like 10 times in my career, I went over him twice to be sure, it's like it's all finally clicked into place. 

And you can't even begin to imagine my giddy glee to hear this!

This horse was so damn cooked and strung out when I started on him. He was always falling in and tripping over his feet. He couldn't pick up the left canter lead (we have a YouTube video of it on) and you know the best part? All the riders that have done his training are kids to teens or adults with less than 5 years riding. I didn't do the work. My students did.

It absolutely makes my heart sing to pass this kind of knowledge on to the next generation of equestrians. How we can ride out horses for soundness and consent. How we can leave them better than we found them. 

I don't care about what the judges say anymore. I care about what my horses and their body workers say (you just gotta find the right body worker).

The day we are judged by qualified body workers is the day I will start taking interest in competitions again.

PEMF and horse behaviour with Kate McGauly from Smiling Horse LLC: Part 3

In the vast expanse of the equestrian world, where hoofbeats echo amidst the whispers of the wind, there exists a profound and symbiotic relationship between horse training and the depths of personal introspection. It's a journey that transcends the mere mastery of equine skills, delving into the uncharted territories of the human spirit, guided by the gentle wisdom of our equine companions.

Enter Kate, a beacon of wisdom in the equestrian realm, whose journey as a seasoned horse trainer and the founder of Smiling Horse LLC has been marked by an unwavering commitment to unraveling the intricate threads that bind horse training to personal growth. With a wealth of experiences garnered over years of dedicated practice, Kate stands as a testament to the transformative power of this journey.

Consider, for a moment, the last time you found yourself grappling with frustration in the presence of your equine partner. Perhaps their behavior seemed perplexing, their responses unpredictable. Yet, in the quiet depths of reflection, a realization dawns – the root of the challenge may not lie solely within the horse but within ourselves. Horses, with their innate sensitivity and intuitive nature, serve as mirrors to our innermost thoughts and emotions, reflecting back to us aspects of ourselves that often remain concealed from the conscious mind.

It's a revelation that invites us to embark on a journey of self-discovery, to confront the shadows that linger within and to embrace the light that illuminates our path forward. Through introspection and self-reflection, we gain a deeper understanding of our own emotional landscape, unraveling the tangled knots of fear, doubt, and insecurity that entwine our hearts.

In the tender embrace of this introspective journey, guided by the gentle nudges of our equine companions, we find solace in the realization that every challenge is an opportunity for growth. For it is in the crucible of adversity that we forge the mettle of our character, honing the virtues of patience, empathy, and resilience that serve as the bedrock of our relationships – both with our horses and with ourselves.

Kate, with her seasoned wisdom, imparts invaluable insights into the importance of nurturing emotional maturity and mastering the delicate dance of ego management in our interactions with horses. Through her guidance, we learn to cultivate a sanctuary of trust and understanding, where the bonds of companionship flourish amidst the tender whispers of mutual respect.

Central to this ethos is the unwavering commitment to horse welfare – a sacred covenant that echoes the timeless wisdom of our ancestors, who understood that true mastery is born not of domination but of collaboration. By honoring the unique needs of our equine partners, we create a harmonious tapestry of mutual respect and reciprocity, where the welfare of the horse takes precedence over the pursuit of mere performance metrics.

In the crucible of the training arena, where dust mingles with the echoes of whispered dreams, we find ourselves embarking on a journey of transformation – a journey that transcends the confines of the tangible world and delves into the realms of the soul. So let us heed the call to embrace this sacred odyssey, guided by the gentle wisdom of our equine companions, as we journey together towards the luminous horizon of self-discovery and enlightenment. Join us on the first do no harm podcast and hear this conversation in full.

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Is your riding coach irrelevant?

Sometimes we can find it hard to understand our horses. Reading them is learning another language.

What I teach my (english speaking) students is imagine you went to Germany and you were taking a math class. Would you learn math? No! Because you don't speak German. 

No imagine you were in the same class with a translator. Can you learn the math now? Yes! Is the translator the one teaching you? No. But you can understand what's being said now you have a better chance at learning math.

That's what my role as a coach is. Not to teach math but to translate the language. The horses job is to teach you how they want to be ridden. To begin with you don't understand what they're saying so it's my job to teach you the language so that you can have the conversation with the horse.

Your job is to learn the language so that you can have the conversation without me. 

I want to become irrelevant. 

I want you to be able to have a better conversation with your horse than I can. 

Because I don't know your horse, I only speak some of their language.

Learn how I teach my students how to speak horse in the Say YES to a happy, willing horses Masterclass