The intricate dance between humans and horses has fascinated us for centuries. From working partners to trusted companions, horses have woven themselves into the fabric of human history. 

In the realm of education and training, school horses take centre stage, providing valuable lessons not only in riding but also in building relationships based on trust and communication. However, just like any relationship, the bond between riders and horses requires continuous nurturing. 

There are subtle indicators that can help us understand whether these majestic creatures are actively engaged in their training or if there's a risk of the connection faltering.
In equine communication, body language is a universal vocabulary. Engaged horses speak volumes through their posture, expressions, and movements. When a horse is invested in its training, you'll notice a lively energy (impulsion/a willingness to participate) in their step. They willingly respond to cues from riders and instructors, displaying a synchronicity that comes from a place of trust and understanding. There are many subtle cues that I’m looking for but know your own horse you will pick up on many more. 

• Where is your horse's eye contact

• Where are your horses ears

• Are they hold tension

• Can they stand with relaxation

• Are you having to pressure them for performance

• When do they start saying no (resisting, stop giving eye contact, generally not consenting)

• How do they stand

• Do they track up when they move

• What does their head carriage look like

• Are they breathing

• Are they happy receiving physical contact, are they giving physical contact

Conversely, disinterested horses might exhibit subtle but telling signs. A lack of enthusiasm might manifest as a slouched posture or slow, lethargic movements. They might seem distracted or unresponsive to commands they've previously mastered. This shift can stem from various factors—physical discomfort, boredom, or even an underlying health issue. Recognizing these signals early on can prevent the deterioration of the relationship between riders and their equine partners.

Consistency

Consistency in behaviour is a powerful telltale sign of a horse's engagement. When a horse consistently performs well, follows commands, and exhibits a positive attitude, it's a clear indication that the training is on track. 

But don’t let this be your stopping point. This is where we separate green and conflicted equestrians from truly connected equestrians.

It is not the horse's responsibility to come in and perform its tricks for you with a smile on its face. Why would your horse want you to ride it? How can learning be fun? Why would they spend energy reserves? How can moving feel good? Why would your horse look after? Why would they invite you on their back? Why would they lick you instead of bite you? Why would they nuzzle you instead of headbutt you?

Instead of asking yourself how can I get my horse to do “insert behaviour here”, ask yourself, “why would they want to”
It highlights that the horse is not only learning the necessary skills but also integrating the process. Getting them to do a particular behaviour without the horse understanding why or how they should know what you want from them through pressure and coercion means that you are starting from scratch every time you want to do something new. Setting up a language, a process for your horse to understand that you are trying to get them to do something and also for us to be ok with them getting the answer wrong when they are trying to figure it out, sets up a relationship where we are giving them a puzzle to solve. A horse trying to solve a puzzle is a much nicer horse to work with than a horse trying to get away from pressure. This steady process also fortifies the bond between rider and horse, building trust, confidence and understanding in each other.

Erratic performance can hint at a potential disconnect. 

Horses that excel one day but struggle the next might be grappling with external factors. It could be an environmental change, discomfort from improper gear, or even a reaction to the rider's mood and demeanour. In these cases, addressing the root cause and providing consistent support can reignite the spark in their training journey. Sometimes our horses can also lose interest in their work so finding different ways to re engage them in not only carrying us but learning and playing with us helps navigate these moments of “sourness”.

Enthusiasm

While horses can't express themselves in words, their actions speak volumes. 

Engaged horses often exhibit enthusiasm during training sessions. They readily respond to cues, exhibit curiosity, and display a willingness to cooperate. Their eyes sparkle with an almost palpable zest for learning, and they approach new challenges with a sense of adventure.

A lack of engagement can manifest as subtle resistance. Horses might hesitate, display stubbornness, or even show signs of frustration and performance anxiety. This is where confused or conflicted equestrians get stuck.

To be a connected equestrain, it's our duty to decipher their nonverbal language and adjust our approach accordingly.

The relationship between humans and horses is a delicate symphony, built on trust, respect, and effective communication. 

Recognizing the signs of engagement or disinterest is crucial in maintaining the quality of this relationship. By attentively observing their body language, noting consistency in behaviour, and listening to the unspoken cues, we can ensure that the partnership between riders and their equine companions remains strong and enduring. 

As we invest time and effort into their training, we cultivate not only skilled riders but also compassionate individuals who understand the value of listening to the silent language of these remarkable animals.

Not sure if your horse has started to sour? Head over to the mini course Opening Communication for a guide on helping you and your horse increase communication and start working towards those unicorn moments!